Do You Love Batman

Why do we all love batman? Seriously?

The idea of masked super hero is noble. A man works for the benefit of humanity and for the safety of his loved ones, not being hurt, he puts on a mask to protect identity. And that comes at the cost of people never recognising by his real name. Quite noble.
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And now let's talk about batman. What does he depend on? What drives him? There are arcs in comics that specifically show that if he went back in time and stopped his parents from being killed, batman wouldn't at all exist. And seeing from that and a lot of other instances, he's a man motivated by pain. And he doesn't need anyone's help. Never. (He does, he just never accepts it)

I write about this because of the (mainly) male obsession with this kind of character could be as negative as the worship of joker. Boys are told to 'be men' and we grow up idealizing heroes who can take down armies on their own with a machine gun. Which is not wrong in itself because if the hero is as weak as me, what's the bloody point? But the innate tendency of men to not to talk of hardships or their feelings just moves them farther and farther from all the support and the progress they could otherwise have. And with most men it takes three beers for them to talk about something that is close to their heart. Its okay to speak guys! It's okay to share!! The only thing that's not okay is bringing up men's problems only and only when you wanna say 'feminism should be called equalism' or whatever you made up that time

FALL on the Barricade!

There was someone I knew once. Just someone. He once said ' I was wrapped in this box where the walls screamed of self doubt and the texture was so coarse that no light known to man was able to penetrate' oddly familiar, don't you think? Everyone stumbles over the stones of self doubt every once a while, possibly when trying something new or at the brink of a life changing methodology. It's amusing that what lies at the end of the bridge is something really fresh, bad or good. Bad or good, but enough to move forward. And see, you know that! You know all the tumblr, brainy quotes with regards o this subject, all the aids that help you feel better about yourself... Yet you continue to let this affect you.. And this isn't even a real problem. It's when instead of tumbling down, you stop. This stone is no longer a stone! It's a barricade. You don't move, you don't think! You're paralyzed. And going back from that, it's ardous.
This is when you must realize that you need to start taking risk again; fall down, break a wall, jump of this metaphorical wall! Even if you injure yourself, you must fall down. And with every fall, a part of this barricade you've set up for yourself will break.
I agree when people say 'Oh, self doubt is just a part of growing up!'. It is, but it becomes a problem when something as mere as a compliment cannot be ingested by someone. When this 'part' becomes too frequent, the 'growing up' becomes difficult. And only because it has the word 'self' in it. It doesn't have to be solved alone. Involve your friends, ask people for feedback, say nice things to someone if they deserve it. 'I can't do this' 'may be Im not cut out for this?' 'I'm not capable' How do you know? You haven't allowed yourself to see the answer yet!

Multi Personality Syndrome

I feel like this one looks and feels better. It gives out such contrasting vibes. You'd expect it to be all sunny and increased warmth and tones but instead, it's dark and brooding and vicious. I feel like this deserves some good content! So content it shall have.
● Sudden revelation last week about some other odd facts that go unnoticed about human beings. Not a lot of people think HOW insane it is that we can hold so many personalities within us. Our emotions are segregated so efficiently that it shows itself individually. AAnd to add to the audacity of this... It's even more weird how some ideas of this multiple personality syndrome activates around a certain someone. For example you showcase your complete mental side with a few selected people who can tolerate your madness. You showcase your vulnerable side to a few people who you can trust and who will not judge you, rather stand by your side. You showcase your innergeek, inner fashionista, inner nerd, inner emo side to those who you find compatible  with a genre created by the world. That side in your conscience is so selective about the fact that how much of yourself can you really show to someone. You could be this tough bird minute and the most vulnerable person in the world the next. And that is decided by the people you are surrounded by the circumstances that your actions have led to. It's beautiful, almost like threshold frequency. Only at a minimum frequency electrons will be kicked of the plate. If we bring resonance to this equation of life, it's almost as if your frequency must match with frequency of the opposite person in order to attain maximum amplitude, in my case amplitude means trust. It's sad that when people make covalent bond created over years of electron transfer. Every single personality that we carry, how we decide to show it and when; WE REALLY ARE SMART CREATURES.

Little Positivity

We take so many different things for granted everyday. But as soon as the rader goes up, we begin to realize our idiocy of not using time wisely. The transition from have to had is the quickest. At one time, You've entered Oman for the first time and are being told to move seats and buy books and notebooks. And now your school life has come to an end, once and for all. Life loves throwing curve balls once in a while and make us realize that we're not the only ones in the party. It's difficult to see what event is coming up but it is possible to LOVE each other and REALLY remain positive. Appreciate yourself. It's difficult out there without a little positivity, so there you go!

The pit of nothingness

No, no I have not forgotten that I still am responsible for the up keep and maintenance of this beautiful hot and concentrated mess I've managed to create.
I want to take a minute and type out something I've always wanted to talk about. The demographic my generation belongs to shares a lot of views and different experiences without even being physically present next to each other. It's not just that demographic I speak for and about, I speak about everyone today. We also share a common vortex and portal into the dark world; what medical experts call 'depression'. Everyone's been there, one part of the time for a variety of reasons. It's dark and hidden from the outer world and disregards all laws of physics. People are pushed into this pit of nothingness. If there's something behind the fact that you're body feels so depressed and you can do something about it, do it. If you see a rope in that pit, climb it. You should make sure you love yourself first and for that you don't really need justification from others. If there's a reason you're sad, avoid it, stand up for what you believe in how YOU are. Do whatever you have to do. A lot of people disagreed depression thinking it's circumstantial, almost a joke in today's world. It's not and never will be. Something in virtual existence tearing a person more dramatically than someone near him, is scary 'haha, are you depressed or something? Why so serious?' There's no 'or something' and I don't see what it is funny. We're smart, have good brains. Let's put that use, shall we?

Perspective

How you see something differs from the next person in the room. If I placed an object in front of you, the very first response would be recognizing the object and it would eventually deliver a memory. A memory so unique only to you. That's the same concept with a story. Every story has different set of views. The observer's reference point, the charecters on the journey and the readers/listeners who aren't physically present in the scenario but are trying to use their imagination as a weapon. What I'm standing on is;I every coin has two faces, every pallete has different colors, every wall has two sides, every cube has 6 sides. There's just a lot of variations in this world - even foor is not left alone, with the adulteration and injections! Everything is mixed, opinions and views. In this time and age, it's very difficult to believe just one specific fact and make it your concrete opinion. Assumption is a natural weakness of a human mind, but it can be avoided. Every story changes, may be yesterday Cinderella lost her glass slipper and tomorrow she could trip and break a leg. It's just a good thing to know all the sides to something, all the W's and any other alphabet involved. So, listen.

The man who locked himself.......

Uncertainties, doubts, fears, hesitation are all often portrayed as signs of weak personality, unsure of what they want. I differ in opinion as I believe a person with any sort of capability is allowed the benefit of a doubt. Hesitating before doing something is okay, thinking twice before something is fine. You must, in my opinion learn to hesitate before attacking an opportunity and be sure of what you're doing one more time. It only gets complicated when you let your whole life revolve around the fear of something that has one in a million probability of actually existing. It gets further agonizing when you make your mind believe that this thing is going to take place and you're going to witness it and there will be nothing you can do to stop it. We all have that tendency to play scenes in our head and overthink it to the most complex faction but I once read that there was a man who locked himself in a room because he was so scared of the world and love, might it break his heart and ended up dying anyway because a frame fell on his head. What are we doing when we let these doubts dominate us? We are giving the unknown a mighty amount of power. Lock all your overthinking abilities and try to smile at life so it smiles back.