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Showing posts with label india. Show all posts

Sunday, 3 June 2018

Do You Love Batman

Why do we all love batman? Seriously?

The idea of masked super hero is noble. A man works for the benefit of humanity and for the safety of his loved ones, not being hurt, he puts on a mask to protect identity. And that comes at the cost of people never recognising by his real name. Quite noble.
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And now let's talk about batman. What does he depend on? What drives him? There are arcs in comics that specifically show that if he went back in time and stopped his parents from being killed, batman wouldn't at all exist. And seeing from that and a lot of other instances, he's a man motivated by pain. And he doesn't need anyone's help. Never. (He does, he just never accepts it)

I write about this because of the (mainly) male obsession with this kind of character could be as negative as the worship of joker. Boys are told to 'be men' and we grow up idealizing heroes who can take down armies on their own with a machine gun. Which is not wrong in itself because if the hero is as weak as me, what's the bloody point? But the innate tendency of men to not to talk of hardships or their feelings just moves them farther and farther from all the support and the progress they could otherwise have. And with most men it takes three beers for them to talk about something that is close to their heart. Its okay to speak guys! It's okay to share!! The only thing that's not okay is bringing up men's problems only and only when you wanna say 'feminism should be called equalism' or whatever you made up that time

Saturday, 14 April 2018

FALL on the Barricade!

There was someone I knew once. Just someone. He once said ' I was wrapped in this box where the walls screamed of self doubt and the texture was so coarse that no light known to man was able to penetrate' oddly familiar, don't you think? Everyone stumbles over the stones of self doubt every once a while, possibly when trying something new or at the brink of a life changing methodology. It's amusing that what lies at the end of the bridge is something really fresh, bad or good. Bad or good, but enough to move forward. And see, you know that! You know all the tumblr, brainy quotes with regards o this subject, all the aids that help you feel better about yourself... Yet you continue to let this affect you.. And this isn't even a real problem. It's when instead of tumbling down, you stop. This stone is no longer a stone! It's a barricade. You don't move, you don't think! You're paralyzed. And going back from that, it's ardous.
This is when you must realize that you need to start taking risk again; fall down, break a wall, jump of this metaphorical wall! Even if you injure yourself, you must fall down. And with every fall, a part of this barricade you've set up for yourself will break.
I agree when people say 'Oh, self doubt is just a part of growing up!'. It is, but it becomes a problem when something as mere as a compliment cannot be ingested by someone. When this 'part' becomes too frequent, the 'growing up' becomes difficult. And only because it has the word 'self' in it. It doesn't have to be solved alone. Involve your friends, ask people for feedback, say nice things to someone if they deserve it. 'I can't do this' 'may be Im not cut out for this?' 'I'm not capable' How do you know? You haven't allowed yourself to see the answer yet!

Thursday, 8 March 2018

Multi Personality Syndrome

I feel like this one looks and feels better. It gives out such contrasting vibes. You'd expect it to be all sunny and increased warmth and tones but instead, it's dark and brooding and vicious. I feel like this deserves some good content! So content it shall have.
● Sudden revelation last week about some other odd facts that go unnoticed about human beings. Not a lot of people think HOW insane it is that we can hold so many personalities within us. Our emotions are segregated so efficiently that it shows itself individually. AAnd to add to the audacity of this... It's even more weird how some ideas of this multiple personality syndrome activates around a certain someone. For example you showcase your complete mental side with a few selected people who can tolerate your madness. You showcase your vulnerable side to a few people who you can trust and who will not judge you, rather stand by your side. You showcase your innergeek, inner fashionista, inner nerd, inner emo side to those who you find compatible  with a genre created by the world. That side in your conscience is so selective about the fact that how much of yourself can you really show to someone. You could be this tough bird minute and the most vulnerable person in the world the next. And that is decided by the people you are surrounded by the circumstances that your actions have led to. It's beautiful, almost like threshold frequency. Only at a minimum frequency electrons will be kicked of the plate. If we bring resonance to this equation of life, it's almost as if your frequency must match with frequency of the opposite person in order to attain maximum amplitude, in my case amplitude means trust. It's sad that when people make covalent bond created over years of electron transfer. Every single personality that we carry, how we decide to show it and when; WE REALLY ARE SMART CREATURES.

Friday, 22 December 2017

Perspective

How you see something differs from the next person in the room. If I placed an object in front of you, the very first response would be recognizing the object and it would eventually deliver a memory. A memory so unique only to you. That's the same concept with a story. Every story has different set of views. The observer's reference point, the charecters on the journey and the readers/listeners who aren't physically present in the scenario but are trying to use their imagination as a weapon. What I'm standing on is;I every coin has two faces, every pallete has different colors, every wall has two sides, every cube has 6 sides. There's just a lot of variations in this world - even foor is not left alone, with the adulteration and injections! Everything is mixed, opinions and views. In this time and age, it's very difficult to believe just one specific fact and make it your concrete opinion. Assumption is a natural weakness of a human mind, but it can be avoided. Every story changes, may be yesterday Cinderella lost her glass slipper and tomorrow she could trip and break a leg. It's just a good thing to know all the sides to something, all the W's and any other alphabet involved. So, listen.

Friday, 15 December 2017

The man who locked himself.......

Uncertainties, doubts, fears, hesitation are all often portrayed as signs of weak personality, unsure of what they want. I differ in opinion as I believe a person with any sort of capability is allowed the benefit of a doubt. Hesitating before doing something is okay, thinking twice before something is fine. You must, in my opinion learn to hesitate before attacking an opportunity and be sure of what you're doing one more time. It only gets complicated when you let your whole life revolve around the fear of something that has one in a million probability of actually existing. It gets further agonizing when you make your mind believe that this thing is going to take place and you're going to witness it and there will be nothing you can do to stop it. We all have that tendency to play scenes in our head and overthink it to the most complex faction but I once read that there was a man who locked himself in a room because he was so scared of the world and love, might it break his heart and ended up dying anyway because a frame fell on his head. What are we doing when we let these doubts dominate us? We are giving the unknown a mighty amount of power. Lock all your overthinking abilities and try to smile at life so it smiles back.

The Desi Couple

I feel like I should be putting up a nice deep caption but sometimes your feelings and your heart lie and CONPHUSEE your brain. The brain and the heart are the most irritational couple ever. You see that you have a decision to make and they act like desi parents "ask mamma" "ask dadda" "talk to mamma". Then, finally you have come to a conclusion something will happen out of the blue and you will be back right where you started. Then, will enter your gut and go with the your gut feeling. Jokes aside, have we ever really thought about how many times some of us process a simple task? We have such a functional brain, yet we never feel confident with our choices and may be that's the beauty of it. No one should be given so much power to feel extremely confident that he/she is right. May be flaws really are beautiful and we just happen to look at them critically. It's good to fall down once in a while. Oops!!!!

Saturday, 9 December 2017

It's okay to have a breakdown!

I finally managed to get this visual in my mind into a picture format. Also yes! I'm here with a new content! I've always been an observant chlid, my small mind was astonished at the amount of different people there are and how differently they sort to put their views on the table, if any. People believe in different things, different laws, different concepts of acceptance and different rights or wrongs. Perception is my armor. I rely on what I view and how I view it. Afted 18 years of being told that this box that I own does not only contain a roof and base but also four other sides that make up this whole entity. Everyday I'm challenging my support that I've carved so meticulously. Situations like these lead to chaos. And how does one return back to the resting state from this negative potential? After hours, I've come to the conclusion that you have to. You have to get back up, climb your own body, if you must and stand up once more. There never was any point in sitting back and cribbing about everything. You are responsible for the actions you confer upon, decisions you take consciously and people you choose to share a part of yours with. And so, may be this road trip might end up flat lining, but everytime you bend down to pick up a piece that has fallen down, your body gets shaped to this system. You need to break down to understand the process of healing. We may be the smartest creatures of the universe, the most equipped and at the forefront of ground breaking discoveries, but we're labile, emotionally unstable and perpetually gullible people. It's okay if your perception has taken a blow today, the next day is always better.

Monday, 4 December 2017

Happiness

Hello virtual world!! Consisting of kind and awesome people! I feel like my blog has rarely seen fresh content but today, I would like to present some fresh content! I had lots of ideas going around in my tiny little 3 pound universe as soon as I saw this old man absolutely aesthetic with his smile. It's beyond happiness when your picture speaks what you feel. I work with feelings I want a photo to give. As soon as I started getting the required vibe, my poor heart was having a lubdub malfunction. To be honest, I'm mystified by the matter that everyday, someone somewhere is creating something new. Be it a memory, an IIT passout, a joke, a cure to something, a device, a new relationship, a new law. It's so alluring that people are using their power to do something new. Our kind is such a productive one, it doesn't matter if you're a couch potato. At least you're doing something being a couch potato. Some things are created,some are destroyed, and some are floating! You know, small causes has large effects. Each of us- a small cause. Each of us- is creating a large effect. Where does this effect go? Could it be that each one of us is impacting the universe in some form that we are not aware of yet? What if about 7 billion of us impacting something 7 billion times the initial? There are so many things we don't know, there's so much scope to discover and taste. Even that, is doing something and creating.

Mother Nature

It's absolutely jaw dropping to be in this position where nature stands in front of you, looking majestic and you feel like a pawn in its game and you're not even melancholic about it.

Saturday, 25 November 2017

Welcome to my blog

Hello everyone! Welcome to my blog. I've been thinking. The internet has inspired me so much. I really, really want to contribute. I am a photographer. I want to share my life, my experiences, and the things I've learnt from the cosmos. SO, I've decided to build this photography blog. I'm more of an observer kind of person. But I jump into photography stuffs and get involved. In my journey as a photographer, inspirations always came in small packets from things I could see and feel. Sometimes it would come in a big ribbon-wrapped present from the universe. To all the photographer kids out there!! Write, take photos, feel things and talk deep with other friends who are also coincidently photographers.
I will post all my works here in my blog. Comment section is always open, I welcome your opinions and ideas!Keep an eye out for me. 
Thank you, and welcome aboard world!
●Here is my first picture. 

Do You Love Batman

Why do we all love batman? Seriously? The idea of masked super hero is noble. A man works for the benefit of humanity and for the safety of...